OK I hear this a lot: "let's just be friends" Sorry lady there is no such thing. Being friends wit the opposite sex is damn near impossible the reason I say "damn near" is cause you have to add in the homosexuals. Having a strictly platonic friendship is like a dream to every woman in the world. It's like turning a bad boy good. Ok so what if you and your home boy been down since under roos but that don't mean he don't want you! In all truth there is no way! If a guy walks up to randomly and seems friendly it's to get in your pants eventually. He is trying to get to know you true, but he is trying to get to know your clothes on the floor too. You can be anywhere and it could be during any event no man is going to be your friend for long!
Today I was talking to a chick and she says we should go to the movies. I say no you have man it's a waist of time. She is shocked by this answer! Hello you forgot who you are talking to? Hold on, hi my name is Jody! I don't do girl/friends! That makes zero sense! I ain't walk up to you because you LOOKED like you have a great personality! No I walked up to you cause I wanted to get inside you. Ok that's a little brut-ish but it's the truth. 99.9% of the time I walk up to a chick it's not to be her friend. The same goes for every man. He can lie to you and himself and say yeah I just want to be your friend but that's not how it goes down.Now when your dating a guy and he says the chick is his friend yeah it's possible but anyone new that's not the truth same thing applies she looked good and he wants to see what she looks like with no clothes on.
So in the end we cant be friends it just doesn't go that way. The funny part is that after I asked this question it ONLY WOMEN who thought that you can be friends!
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Do My Ladies Run This...
I was on YouTube.com one day and ran across this ABW (Angry Black Woman). She had a 10 min rant about the "Power of the Penis". If she wasn't so upset she would realize that it is the vagina that runs this. OK I know I am a man I loves the vagina and all that is attached to it, but I know the truth. Women don’t understand that men do things for women and not anything else. You listen to music, look at the TV, and even read a magazine.
It’s funny to me how this one woman actually was saying things that I have heard from other women. I mean, I can come off a tad angry but in truth I’m not, I just speak from what I see and know is true. I know when I listen to music it’s the same thing: “Money cars/clothes and hoes” (Ok yeah don’t get uptight). Cars/clothes represent the material things you have. Money and car/clothes get women you cant have women and car/clothes or women and money. Any way you don’t hear that many songs nowadays that put men on a pedestal, but you do about women. There are tons I am going to name a few: INDEPENTENT WOMEN, 5 Star Chick, and anything Beyonce. So as you can see music to me is even majority targeted to women.
Do you know what TV shows are popular now? The shows that a made for women from what I hear. They are a lot of shows just for women and even a WHOLE channel (Lifetime or WE). Not only shows and channels are, but the commercials for women. I remember when the only person in the car commercial was a man, or you look at a beer commercial and it was the same way. I am not upset because I like to look at women. About 70% of the buying powers are women so women run the economy and the TV too.
Now speaking of buying power you have to think how are they getting money. Obviously it’s not from a man. They are climbing up the corporate ladder because men are lacking tin the education department. I am in college and I see that in the majority of my classes the women out weigh the men (not just in size). In one of my classes there are 22 students out of that that 2 of us are men. That is 10 to 1. The class that just graduated was something like 345 (small numbers I know you should see the school) and out of that 29 men. 5 of those men were in the Honor Society. That means 316 women with degrees are out in the working world taking jobs like candy from the babies (men) they get the high paying jobs.
So how I have come to this: the Educated majority, WOMEN the higher class, WOMEN the majority of the media, WOMEN. Since women have the education which is getting them the good jobs which gives them the buying power and advertisers know this which makes TV for women.
Like I said before DO MY LADIES RUN THIS MUTHA….
It’s funny to me how this one woman actually was saying things that I have heard from other women. I mean, I can come off a tad angry but in truth I’m not, I just speak from what I see and know is true. I know when I listen to music it’s the same thing: “Money cars/clothes and hoes” (Ok yeah don’t get uptight). Cars/clothes represent the material things you have. Money and car/clothes get women you cant have women and car/clothes or women and money. Any way you don’t hear that many songs nowadays that put men on a pedestal, but you do about women. There are tons I am going to name a few: INDEPENTENT WOMEN, 5 Star Chick, and anything Beyonce. So as you can see music to me is even majority targeted to women.
Do you know what TV shows are popular now? The shows that a made for women from what I hear. They are a lot of shows just for women and even a WHOLE channel (Lifetime or WE). Not only shows and channels are, but the commercials for women. I remember when the only person in the car commercial was a man, or you look at a beer commercial and it was the same way. I am not upset because I like to look at women. About 70% of the buying powers are women so women run the economy and the TV too.
Now speaking of buying power you have to think how are they getting money. Obviously it’s not from a man. They are climbing up the corporate ladder because men are lacking tin the education department. I am in college and I see that in the majority of my classes the women out weigh the men (not just in size). In one of my classes there are 22 students out of that that 2 of us are men. That is 10 to 1. The class that just graduated was something like 345 (small numbers I know you should see the school) and out of that 29 men. 5 of those men were in the Honor Society. That means 316 women with degrees are out in the working world taking jobs like candy from the babies (men) they get the high paying jobs.
So how I have come to this: the Educated majority, WOMEN the higher class, WOMEN the majority of the media, WOMEN. Since women have the education which is getting them the good jobs which gives them the buying power and advertisers know this which makes TV for women.
Like I said before DO MY LADIES RUN THIS MUTHA….
Thursday, October 1, 2009
To Cheat or Not to Cheat
I have been talking to my EX lately, of course things of the past always find their way to the light. For me, its unfaithfulness not from me but from my "women-boo" so its always at the mark of my head what would make a person want/need to cheat. is there something wrong going on in the relationship, is there something that cant be fix or for me can you not wait for the return. Don't get it twisted i know that everyone cheats if they haven't they will or already have cheated. so it came to no surprise that I get a I hear on the phone "Jody I'm pregnant" Honestly that's not the first time I heard those words and the weren't ever for me. This is why I wasn't excited or surprised because I have been away from home for at least 4 months and she was 2 months pregnant. the obvious question from me is "who's is it?" Well the answer wasn't what I was expecting my "best friend". Not only did she cheat but she did it with my best friend "2 POW".
The reason for this is because I was gone too long and she had an itch that needed to be scratched. I totally get it because I wasn't there, she need the next thing to me. If my cousin was there she would've done it with him. The worst part I aint get mad I actually was OK. If most folks know how i am then they would understand too. I am not that sexual or don't do affection! Really I am the best boyfriend personality wise, but not physically.
Its not just women who cheat men do it too. This is just me and this is all I that I have. THE END
The reason for this is because I was gone too long and she had an itch that needed to be scratched. I totally get it because I wasn't there, she need the next thing to me. If my cousin was there she would've done it with him. The worst part I aint get mad I actually was OK. If most folks know how i am then they would understand too. I am not that sexual or don't do affection! Really I am the best boyfriend personality wise, but not physically.
Its not just women who cheat men do it too. This is just me and this is all I that I have. THE END
Friday, September 25, 2009
Compromise VS. Change
A friend of mine told me that she makes compromises for her "Man-boo". I asked "What do you consider compromise?" She told me that he doesn't like to go to "jams". Then she told me that she stopped going to "jams'' all together. I asked her if her "Man-Boo" asked her to so. She said "No I did that voluntarily". So then of course I asked were you happy with the choice you made? Did you slow down then stop or just straight up stopped? She says "At first it was rough, but I did it to save the relationship. And no, I just stopped going to ''Jams"!
See this is where this makes no sense to me in order to compromise both sides MUST come to an agreement. If I was in a relationship and someone did not like what I did then, OH WELL! Even though for a relationship to build you must compromise, I get that. So let me make an example of her. Her "Man-boo" doesn't like "jams" so what to do? Well ''Man-boo" you don't like them but "woman-boo" does here is a compromise:
How about one 'jam' a week. That is only 52 a year out of the 365 days of the year, and majority of the time not at the "jam" is spent with the "man-boo" or each other however you see fit. That to me should make everyone happy (no such thing). She gets to go to the "jam" and he gets his quality time (what a chump).
What she did in the beginning was a CHANGE. Her change was not going to "Jams" anymore. I mean she just came to a halt. From the outside looking in that looks like she alone made that discussion which happens a lot. Women make choices by themselves to "save" the relationship but as soon as things go wrong its "I did this and that for you and you do this and that TO me." But according to her, he never asked for her to stop she chose to and she was upset but he was happy so she was "happy" too. If she would have spoke to him about the situation it wouldn't get that far. Everyone changes but compromise takes time, patients, and understanding.
See this is where this makes no sense to me in order to compromise both sides MUST come to an agreement. If I was in a relationship and someone did not like what I did then, OH WELL! Even though for a relationship to build you must compromise, I get that. So let me make an example of her. Her "Man-boo" doesn't like "jams" so what to do? Well ''Man-boo" you don't like them but "woman-boo" does here is a compromise:
How about one 'jam' a week. That is only 52 a year out of the 365 days of the year, and majority of the time not at the "jam" is spent with the "man-boo" or each other however you see fit. That to me should make everyone happy (no such thing). She gets to go to the "jam" and he gets his quality time (what a chump).
What she did in the beginning was a CHANGE. Her change was not going to "Jams" anymore. I mean she just came to a halt. From the outside looking in that looks like she alone made that discussion which happens a lot. Women make choices by themselves to "save" the relationship but as soon as things go wrong its "I did this and that for you and you do this and that TO me." But according to her, he never asked for her to stop she chose to and she was upset but he was happy so she was "happy" too. If she would have spoke to him about the situation it wouldn't get that far. Everyone changes but compromise takes time, patients, and understanding.
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
How to Survive Phase I (Show and Prove)
So you just started talking to this guy and you realized that there is something you don't like. What do you do?
Well first off he had to have done something that you liked for you to start talking (that's a plus). But you know you want to get down with him so instead of speaking on it you become frustrated and annoyed. Now that's all fine and dandy but its only ONE THING! Why are you bugging?
Here are somethings that might work:
Well first off he had to have done something that you liked for you to start talking (that's a plus). But you know you want to get down with him so instead of speaking on it you become frustrated and annoyed. Now that's all fine and dandy but its only ONE THING! Why are you bugging?
Here are somethings that might work:
- You start off by saying things you like and dislike. For example: You are have a conversation and he says (they always do)"What do you like to do?". Now pay attention there are ways to say your dislikes and make them sound as if there were likes (I think y'all do this already). I like to stay at home and watch movies, I am a real homebody most of the time. That is an example of saying a dislike but as a like its a form of reverse psychology. Secretly you are saying I dont like to go out and party that much.
- Dont play slow ball in the beginning. Remember ladies this is PHASE I (Show and Prove) of the relationship. On both sides you cant come to weak you will dead it (relationship). Come to strong you'll seem desperate and he'll go running. But never I repeat NEVER let him set the pase. If it was up to him he would stay single doing him as long as posible (oh and dont think that not giving up the skins is going to make him want to see what all the excitement is about. NOPE he will get bored of the convos and the teasing eventually he will stop trying and leave).
- If you do decide to stop at PHASE I DO NOT LOOK BACK I say again. DO NOT LOOK BACK! If you do you will lose all home court advantage. Not even if he comes back wait until he does things your way or no way at all. If he doesnt meet you demands then its on to the next one.
- And the most important one KEEP YOUR COOL. DO NOT GET JEALOUS! If he still talks to other women its ok its his way (mens ways) of security. If you drop him he has back up but play him like dominoes, you give him cards he can play on so YOU can shut his game down.
Too Much Love in the Panties
"If I am not 'feeling' him emotionally I cant sleep with him". This is a statement that I here a lot from women. I think its funny. So what you telling me is your vagina has feelings too? I mean a guy can go out and sleep with the next chick and not feel two ways about her after. ( I promote SAFE SEX WRAP IT UP HOMIE). On the other hand a man and a woman CAN have a one nighter. The women in those cases I guess they just know what they want outta life and whats done is done. I really can't tell you what is going thru there mind I can just tell you what I have observed. Like if a man and woman just have a sexual relationship it always have to go to the next step. After a while the question "Where are we going with this?" always comes up. Both sides do this, so fella don't think its just women yeah you know exactly what I am talking bout. I know some chicks that just wanna cut no emotions just CUT. Even with that said a lot of the time I see and hear things like "What if the sex is good but I am not feeling him emotionally?" Uhhh honey keep getting yours until you find that emotional connections somewhere else drop the other one and sex the emotions, but for now get yours. OK maybe that sounds wrong! Nah it doesn't! I don't know how many times I have been on the phone with some chick who I am not getting it in with, and she is tell me something bout she in the mood. Me being the kinda guy I am is like just come over I will give you what you looking for but don't get it twisted we aint going to start being a thing. "Uhhh I cant do that. I don't have that kinda of feeling for you?" Feeling last I checked you got plenty of 'feeling'' in you pants and I can be the one to put in work. Not good but I do what your looking for. Anyway that makes no sense if you have someone that your physically attracted to that just happens to not be your type. So why not? Is there something in you vagina the controls you emotions? Just take the emotions out and do you, but that's gotta be easier said then done.
LOVE Vs. Money
Ive heard "love dont cost a thing" If thats true it must cost to love. and if it cost to love who has to pay and what do you pay with?
To me Love is an illusion only to be seen by it's believers like Santa and the Easter bunny. It's shy so it's hard to grab like a unicorn. It's slick so it hard to catch like leprechaun. And it's hard to find like the end of a rainbow. To me love is a fairy tale and only y'all see the non destructive side of it.
I know a lot of people feel that in order to love money has nothing to do with it. I feel that is a bunch of crap. I mean dont get me wrong but people with money can fall in love with people with no money. Rare but it happens but I am talking numbers (Men and women lie numbers don't). Majority of the people that I have seen together that were "in love" were from the same tax bracket. On the real as I am typing this I cant honestly think of someone who got married or fell in love with money. Now dont twist up my word cause I know that exactly what bout to happen. I am saying fell in love with a person who just so happens to have money.
The reason I am saying this is because people in certain classes dont hang in the same parts. A person with money wont be in the hood. (I mean a smart one at least) So the one that he/she is looking for could be in the hood and he/she would never know. On top of that its rare to have the same intrest. Example A rich person might like golf a regular person might not even know the rules of golf and think its boring. Now I am just speaking from ONE MANS POV so dont get hype. I am not saying that it cant happen I am saying MIGHT.
To me Love is an illusion only to be seen by it's believers like Santa and the Easter bunny. It's shy so it's hard to grab like a unicorn. It's slick so it hard to catch like leprechaun. And it's hard to find like the end of a rainbow. To me love is a fairy tale and only y'all see the non destructive side of it.
I know a lot of people feel that in order to love money has nothing to do with it. I feel that is a bunch of crap. I mean dont get me wrong but people with money can fall in love with people with no money. Rare but it happens but I am talking numbers (Men and women lie numbers don't). Majority of the people that I have seen together that were "in love" were from the same tax bracket. On the real as I am typing this I cant honestly think of someone who got married or fell in love with money. Now dont twist up my word cause I know that exactly what bout to happen. I am saying fell in love with a person who just so happens to have money.
The reason I am saying this is because people in certain classes dont hang in the same parts. A person with money wont be in the hood. (I mean a smart one at least) So the one that he/she is looking for could be in the hood and he/she would never know. On top of that its rare to have the same intrest. Example A rich person might like golf a regular person might not even know the rules of golf and think its boring. Now I am just speaking from ONE MANS POV so dont get hype. I am not saying that it cant happen I am saying MIGHT.
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