Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Too Much Love in the Panties

"If I am not 'feeling' him emotionally I cant sleep with him". This is a statement that I here a lot from women. I think its funny. So what you telling me is your vagina has feelings too? I mean a guy can go out and sleep with the next chick and not feel two ways about her after. ( I promote SAFE SEX WRAP IT UP HOMIE). On the other hand a man and a woman CAN have a one nighter. The women in those cases I guess they just know what they want outta life and whats done is done. I really can't tell you what is going thru there mind I can just tell you what I have observed. Like if a man and woman just have a sexual relationship it always have to go to the next step. After a while the question "Where are we going with this?" always comes up. Both sides do this, so fella don't think its just women yeah you know exactly what I am talking bout. I know some chicks that just wanna cut no emotions just CUT. Even with that said a lot of the time I see and hear things like "What if the sex is good but I am not feeling him emotionally?" Uhhh honey keep getting yours until you find that emotional connections somewhere else drop the other one and sex the emotions, but for now get yours. OK maybe that sounds wrong! Nah it doesn't! I don't know how many times I have been on the phone with some chick who I am not getting it in with, and she is tell me something bout she in the mood. Me being the kinda guy I am is like just come over I will give you what you looking for but don't get it twisted we aint going to start being a thing. "Uhhh I cant do that. I don't have that kinda of feeling for you?" Feeling last I checked you got plenty of 'feeling'' in you pants and I can be the one to put in work. Not good but I do what your looking for. Anyway that makes no sense if you have someone that your physically attracted to that just happens to not be your type. So why not? Is there something in you vagina the controls you emotions? Just take the emotions out and do you, but that's gotta be easier said then done.

2 comments:

  1. I agree with you 100% Jody...you need to separate the emotions from intimacy sometimes...If a female wants some, she should just get some and stop fussin bout it.

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  2. I do think it's easier said then done. I like to get mine as much, naw scratch that, MORE than the next female, but there's def. something to be said for the emotional attachment. As much as we front about being guarded, having walls, playin' hard to get, etc. we are emotional beings. I'm not saying no-strings-attached isn't possible...just that the "O" is easier to obtain when there is an emotional connection as well.

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