INDEPENDENT VS. GO GETTERS

Honestly I feel that if you are independent you need to be alone for the rest of your life. Whoa! now that's how you start an argument. I said that once in room full of women I think they almost tried to drop the building down on top of my head. There are many reasons why I say this. I mean its mostly because I am anti man-eater (e.g. Beyonce and Tyler Perry thats another blog). To define the word independent- free from external control and constraint. that says it all you independent do it ALL by YOURSELF. Being independent is completely IMPOSSIBLE. No matter how you bend the defintion its still the in black and white. External control (outside help) constraint (something that holds you back) or (lack of freedom). All these women scream they indepedent need one hard slap in they face (Neyo and Jamie Foxx aint helping either). If you going to be independent then dont complain why you are 'intimdating" to men. Its not that you "intimdating" it that you are a turn off. Everyone wants to be needed and if as soon as I walk up to you say you dont need me then oh well good night. ON to the Next One.
Now a go getter is what I want. Go getter does everything an independent chick does and more why? Because she ACCEPTS help HUMPH she will even ask for it. I mean, you know what you want then Go Get it! If you need a boost then take it. Go getters keep relationships going they are like Jordan on the '96 Bulls she makes the whole team look good. I mean she is the star player but you wont feel bad when she say we did this when you and her know that it was her MOSTLY.
so for me INDEPENDENT 0 Go Getters 1